This is not about saving elephants.
Last week was a tough week for son. He had music lessons on Wednesday, Thursday and Friday. The last one was to make up a lesson missed because of the teacher's performing schedule.
That meant having to miss a swimming lesson which he was not happy about. We packed the swim gear any way just in case there was a no-show and he could have an earlier slot.
Pick-up time: "I missed swimming but you have to wash the gear any way because J used it."
"J forgot his bag so I loaned him my kit."
It transpired that they just whispered amongst themselves and agreed on the loan and the teacher didn't know till after the event. I don't think J's mum is even aware of that, to date.
We talked about this in the evening and I said that was a very kind and grown-up thing to do. He was afraid that I might be angry with him because that meant I had more washing to do.
Well, I wasn't. I was chuffed that my son is learning to be less selfish and is able to think about being helpful to another person.
The fact that J is about the same size helps!